what bothers me more?

good question. 

since 4pm yesterday till now I have:

• straightend the house before baysitter arrival- inlcuding sweeping of floors, put clean dishes away and replacing with dirty ones
• gone to a parent teacher conference
• played with  kids for a bit
• hauled out fall/winter clothes and done (4) loads of laundry
• cleaned the kitchen floor
• put all the CSA goodies away
• cleaned the dining table and floor
• put the mr to bed
• worked on work for 2 hours
• slept wedged between the mr and squash
• woke the mr up
• fed the kiddos breakfast
• made the kiddos lunches
• helped get the kiddos dressed

since 4pm yesterday till he has:

• picked up the csa box
• picked up a kiddo and myself
• played with the kiddos or watched them play
• went to parent teacher conferences
• made dinner
• watched tv
• fell asleep on couch
• moved to bed, slept more
• woke up late (thank you mrs?)
• got dressed
• made own lunch
• helped get kiddos dressed
• took kiddos to school

does it bother me more that he did “less” than i did, not really.  does it bother me more that he hasn’t said a word of gratitude or any sort of conversation to me since eating dinner last night, probably.  does it bother me that i am “missing” out on time with my kids now so i can spend more time on a camping trip with them all this weekend, no.  does it bother me that he is rolling his eyes at me for not spending time with the kids, hell yes.